FOR ALL THE FEMINISTS OUT THERE THAT HAVE BEEN SEXUALLY ABUSED
Ok…..I admit it…..It’s January 1st 2018 at 9am…..and I’m drunk…..probably like a lot of other people today.
But reflecting upon my life’s experiences, I’m just a little bit frustrated at the injustice of how things happen when you get involved with a female that has a history of sexual abuse. It ends up hurting your heart and soul, and it takes a LONG TIME to understand just what really happened.
Yes, if you haven’t guessed…..I’m a MAN, and alfa male, a lone wolf, a sexual machine that enjoys bringing pleasure to a woman almost more than getting sexual satisfaction of my own penis.
I was a domestic partner for nearly 3 years with a female (not sure I would define her as a woman, because in the end she was bat shit crazy) ….that would grab my penis, and work it into an erection and take me inside of her…..and then get mad??
About half the time she would take me into her mouth, then spit in the sink…..and get mad??
After 6 years of hindsight….I THINK I UNDERSTAND, and here is the SOLUTION for all of the men out there in the same situation.
Her sexual abuse began at 7 years of age when her sister’s boyfriend (later husband, and maybe even the father of her children) forced her at knife point into oral sex. After that it was nearly a daily event for the next seven years until she finally had intercourse with a boy and got a boyfriend and didn’t need the abuse anymore.
But, what that created was a female child that learned the power of sex over men and the resentment after the act.
Even some 50 years later, that latent effect of the mental turmoil remains. Every time she desires sexual interaction and even instigates it, after the interaction she is mad at the male that she interacted with.
Damaged goods…..can’t be fixed.
So if you’re a MAN involved with a female that takes you in, and then gets MAD……investigate the root cause of the anger. If your tied up with DAMAGED GOODS my advice to you is RUN!! It will never really be ok, and it will never be fixed or cured. Ultimately it will cost you heart and soul, heartbreak and financial ruin.
A man finally at peace with his wife